Choosing to have however many partners you want does not mean that you do not have self respect. Macho-ism still exists. LOL. breaker, find out the reason, spend time and get to know that person This is a really touchy issue for me. If a woman has been with one man, but is still carrying baggage from that situation. These weren't the low quality dudes either. To be patient with you and Self-Confident. He is a very successful and attractive man so I know for a fact that he has been with many, many women so I think we both know to not bring up the topic. I would rather be morally responsible than put another person through the consequences of my decisions. I won't mind the number of partners if she is physically attracted to me. For example, are you afraid you won't be good enough and she'll leave, breaking your heart? Better yet, have u ever been judged or discriminated otherwise? That to me just doesnt seem like it is the best way to go about things, but that is my opinion and I will respect yours. And I really wouldnt want one of the Town Tomcats as my husband or future father of my children either. assuming they're not self-destructive (no, "lots of sex" isn't automatically self-destructive), in my experience, they're not only better and more adventurous in bed, they're passionate, supportive, loving, kind, and ambitious. Next!! This is what society gets for sexual liberation. Im not saying that the way I thought was right but being raped for 3 years by the same man and molested by someone else that loved you has its effects on your mind and heart. Embrace that, and keep your focus on why you love her today, not what she was before you ever even knew her. Me personally i do not sleep around and i am not going to lower my standards and try and act like a womans past has no bearing on her present let alone is not relevant. Youve literally dated so much that your idea of a great person is flawed. I completely agree with you that a womans sexual health (i.e. That didnt bother me, because I dont really care. Wow, as more as I read your answers as more I agree on what you say I am afraid puppycat feels remorse for something has she been honest with her man about her past????? All that energy goes to personal projects or commuter games. Either your a virgin and done sucked so many dicks or your not a virgin and hjad sex with alot of people. Any woman who behaves this way doesnt deserve commitment from me or any other man. The woman that men desire permanently is the woman who isn't promiscuous and is the opposite of the women they have been with. And any woman Last I checked, its not easy finding a men to love whom you can then share your love of sex with. Probably not, but its still a shock every time I think about it. I never went out to get laid. Nice try though. Butit /is/ a fact that the more promiscuous the woman, the more likely she is to have a failed marriage. So men are letting go this thing that she slept with 30 guys before marriage because this is common. While media still shames yet sells women. I on the other hand have done all those what ifs so they are no longer appealing to me anymore. Don't do it then. Marriage is a serious commitment intended to last a lifetime. Thats such a cop-out. So if that woman is open and honest enough to tell that man her numbers, he may walk away from her before he even learns that she now does share the same values as he does. umm doing your kegels will fix that and also not true unless the promiscuous lady in question is having babies left and right. Even in cases where there was once a connection, it is in my opinion that the inability to stay connected comes from a lack of effective communication. The woman you marry is more modest because she knows her attributes are for your eyes only. So that we, too, can be raised with you on the last day! are is the number that would still be acceptable to most. She is a great woman and I am a great man. Society many times likes to just default to the answer on the surface, rather than go deeper to fully understand what truly is causing a problem or disconnect. low tiers don't even exist in their world they are completely invisible and when they are forced to notice our existence they don't see us as human they se us as inanimate objects to just deal with and make go away asap they know nothing about what the life of a man is like, This is why they say shit like "why are you guys so upset just use tinder to get threesomes every weekend what's wrong teehee" because every guy who exist in theyre world can do stuff like that. Sure, that is what many men (especially those who are getting up there) say. So with that, is nobody worthy of redemption or are we to judge people on their past and hold their previous mistakes over their heads forever? Several promiscuous women have said to me that they could be faithful when married and I think that they would. Though I feel that a beautiful girl would have had more options than a similar guy.so I personally won't judge her on that. Men have to work to get sex, women dont. Lastly, a man will respect you if he respects himself and others, especially women. If I understand this post correctly, it is saying when you are down or depressed then it is perfectly fine to make mistakes in life that can cost you later. I completely understand your position but he is where our views differ. If I am feeling someone and want to have sex, then so be it. That is why at the very beginning I say I think it is best for people to wait with sex. I wouldnt want you to spoil any future postings and have you divulge any top secret information on my behalf. Some of us have led quite successful lives, and have leisure time. good to remind your lover that it was in the past and you cant change it. I wish I could be OK with it but its a struggle every day and it causes me real emotional pain. Very true, plenty of sluts attempt to hide their sluttiness through subterfuge, yet they inevitably give off tells. Love your post ur so real thanks dude not some fake that write stuff as if they are all dat holy. You can't have it both ways. The one that will massage your feet at the end of the day AND bake you fresh croissant! to be selective in whom they chose for a mate. same discounted price. When they should love e themselves. So it isnt the actual number that really matters, it is what her behaviors displays due to her experiences or for whatever reason. I dont even make eye contact with other men. In my line of work I have seen that more times than not there is something deeper going on that has led to that woman taking that route. You havent listed any statistics relevant to the discussion. Theres timing to all things, even discussion about lovers. Correct me if I'm wrong:), You are concerned that the girl you like has slept with a lot of guys, maybe in excess and this really worries you. contraception. To a guy it does matter. I would find disgusting to kiss a woman of that kind. Who has moved forward and disregarded her past. She might have sexual preferences or desires that she has been too afraid to bring up in conversation. Wow this has just help me so much. A man does not want to have to compete with previous Mr. Big. Basically, many women today want to be able to act like a whore while they are younger, and still settle down with a man in a stable marriage once they get their promiscuity out of their systems. enjoy has lead to a downward spiral in the family, out of control divorce I said it to get people to understand this isnt about having the women go out there and have sex with whoever they want. If you actually have a problem with it, that's one thing. If a guy was to meet me he would never guess my number is so high because its all about how I carry myself. Excessive promiscuity is linked directly to narcissism and mental instability. Just go. The best thing is, I have asked a lot of people prior to getting into a relationship because I do not wish to waste my time with somebody who has a lot of sexual partners. He controls himself. You can probably answer that. She eventually cheated and we broke up. One would have to define perfect first. Its just not allowed. I just dont put it all in one article because it would make them to long to be honest. In fact, I see more women who regret marrying young than I see women regret marrying in their 30s. You hold your partners to standards that you hold yourself. What if she was sexually abused, and that contributed to an attitude that made her very carefree with her body. sacrifice some of your freedom (not a ridiculous amount), give them access to They want to to be with just me and vice versa, I think its because Im that way. As soon as women get that into their thick sex driven heads they will realise the truth. Far from it, but I definitely am not gonna freak out about the numbers game! I dont know if i should open up anymore or not. And women who have slept with a lot of men are simply less likely to be deemed compatible as marriage-material. No dice. God did not create us to be WHORES, and I am referring to both Men and Women. Don't forget to follow us on social networks! No, I dont. Hate to say it our race puts more thought into this subject than any other. And, if many guys were blatantly honest with themselves and others, they would probably admit to being more promiscuous than their significant others. I falled in love with a woman that had sex with around 700 partners before me. If my friends or people mention hey, that girl your with, my mates have hooked up with her multiple times, shes a bit of a slut. of life (high school/college) and people seem to not care as much as they get I dont want a woman that thinks that giving herself up so easy is how its supposed to be. you do? How you view intimacy, and love, and sex matters. someone who is empathetic to your feelings and how their past affects you. Press J to jump to the feed. Ill try to stay afloat and let you know what I think. A person exposing the number of past partners has nothing to do with the present moments situation. bro be quiet how would you feel if your wife bumped into a ex and got all happy over it? There is no double standard. Being young is no excuse for being a whore. Though I do try to be aware of my market I promise this article is my honest genuine opinion lol. You cant turn a ho in to a housewife. more imperative because, if given a choice, men will choose the more virtuous YOU HAVE THE SEXUAL POWER, YOU ALWAYS HAVE, stop trying to put men as the sexual power holders, its just dumb. However, a girl can easily disqualify herself from consideration if her number reveals her to have lived life as a raging slut. My ex-husband of 7 years was very well endowed and my current significant other is very much under-endowed, but the sex is just as enjoyable, if not more so. You cannot truly understand or know a person until you know just about everything. I've just been pulled super fucking deep into this r/seduction stuff albeit not too much into this red pill stuff. With that being said, this was really good! Unless, an individual has medical issues I dont feel Be willing to compromise on some things, and she should be willing to compromise on some things as well. 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